Monday, November 27, 2006

My Thanksgiving Weekend

I tried to publish this yesterday but alas, it wouldn't post. So I will try to remember what I wanted to say yesterday. I'm pretty forgetful you know!

I had a wonderful Thanksgiving weekend. I had planned to leave on Wednesday to stay at a friends in PA that night which is about halfway to Nicki's home. At about 1pm on Wednesday, I got a call from Dana, my daughter-in-law (she will always be my daughter-in-law really, even though she and Cory are divorced) asking me if I still wanted to take Mason with me to Nicki's as Dana was very sick and decided she wasn't going out of town. So I said, Sure. I finished up work, kept Mason on the bus with me, we packed up the car and away we went. We spent the night at my friend's home then traveled on to Nicki's Thursday morning after waiting out some freezing rain.
We had a nice and relaxing Thanksgiving dinner and the rest of the weekend was a delight. On Friday Mason stayed with Uncle Rick and Sean while Nicki and I went out to lunch with friends Steven and Brian and Steven's parents, Gene and Beulah who are from Eden, NY. We had met last year so it was nice to see them again. On Saturday, Nicki, Mason and I went to "Blockheads Burrittos" for lunch, a new Mexican style restaurant in New Platz with the theme of Sock Monkeys. I admit I don't get the connection, but still fondly possess my own sock monkey from many years so. We had a great meal and then did a little grocery shopping. When we returned home, Mason went shopping with Uncle Rick so they could buy another "Monster Truck" for them to destroy as they did the day before.
Saturday night, Nicki and I went to the Bradstan in White Lake, NY to enjoy an evening of Cabaret in the Nancy LaMott Room. Playing the piano that night was Nicki's friend Steven, who also sang along with his partner, Brian, Scott who is the owner of the Bradstan, and one of the servers, Beth. The music was wonderful and we enjoyed some yummy desserts and drinks. This was my second time to enjoy music at the Bradstan and I certainly hope to enjoy many more evenings there in the future.

http://www.bradstancountryhotel.com/

Sunday morning Mason and I packed up the car and headed for home. After talking to Dana again on the cell phone, we agreed that Mason should spend Sunday night at my house because Dana was still in the contagious stages of the strep. On our way home, we meet up with my friend Bob and his friend Everett. It was such a wonderful day, they were out riding. It was the first time I got to see Bob back on his bike after his accident last fall.


After saying good bye to Bob, once again Mason were on our way towards home, getting there before 4PM. We unpacked the car, made supper, then waited for Cory and Krista to arrive home from their week long trip to AZ to visit with Cory's father. Mason was so happy to see his Daddy and vice versa. We had a nice dinner, then they got to play for a while.

Mason was a real trooper about getting up so early to get ready to go to work with me and of course it was a blast to have Mason ride on my bus for three out of four of my bus runs. But I could also tell how happy he was to see his Mom after be away from her for almost a week. Ah, another grand adventure for Mason and Me. Now I am looking forward to spending Christmas with everyone at my house! I sure hope the weather allows us to be together!

Saturday, November 18, 2006

Tool Of The Month Club

When I first learned that I was going to be living on my own, I decided I needed to get some tools so that I would be able to at least attempt some minor repairs myself around the house once all "his" tools had moved away. The first thing I got was a cordless screwgun/drill. The first project was putting barrel slide locks on the two garage doors that didn't lock closed. My next tool was more simple, a nice 25' ruler. Then came the rachet set. Pieces always seemed to disappear from that, but I usually found them later mixed in with Cory's tools. I believe the shop vac came next then the tools buying ended for a while. Cory was living here more and his tools moved in with him. Now Cory is living with his girlfriend and I'm assuming the tools will move again. So I have decided to start up the Tool of the Month Club once again. So last week I went out and got my first set of screwdrivers. Because it had been so long since I bought anything, I splurged and got some stuff for the air compressor also. I have picked out a tool box and then perhaps a work light on a drop cord. Then I have looked at a powerwasher at times also. And to think they say that only men enjoy looking at tools!

Tuesday, November 07, 2006

Did you vote?

Never in my life have I felt so unsure about voting. Seemed like almost everyone running in the local elections were a bunch of liars and scoundrels. I even thought about not voting at all.
I was able to vote for the first time when I was 19, recently married and pregnant with Nicki. The voting age had just been dropped from 21 to 18 and I couldn't wait to get into the voting booth. I never missed voting after that, until last year. I had slipped into a funk and just didn't bother to vote.
Today I worked both of my jobs then rushed to the drug store to pick up some cold medicine (sniffle, sniffle) then decided to go pick up a few groceries. As I drove up to town, instead of making the left turn to head to the grocery store in Alden, I turned right and went to the polling location. We have six districts in my little town and of course I can never remember which district I am in. I walked into the room with districts one and two figuring two sounded good to me. I walked into the room, had several people smile and wave and I just said nice and loud, "I'm not sure where I should be". Within seconds I was directed to district four in the next room.
As I walked to the doorway for my district, I notice an old friend from town studying the election selections. I stopped to say "Hi" and Donna proceeded to tell me that she had been talking about me the night before to someone that knew and worked with my Dad years ago. She couldn't remember her name but when I asked her if it was someone who worked with Dad at Lusterprint, she said yes, that was it. After comparing a couple more notes, we confirmed that it was someone name Nicki that was a secretary in the late 60's.
Now here is the story. I fell in love with the name Nicole years before I was pregnant, but kept wondering what nickname would you use for that name. Then one day Dad came home from work and told us about a new secretary whose name was Mary. If I remember correctly, there already was a lady working there name Mary, so they took the 2nd Mary and called her Nicki because her last name, which I can't spell, started with Nicki. Then one day I went to work and met Nicki. She was so beautiful. Long dark hair, tall and slim. I knew right away that I would someday have a daughter called Nicki.
Flash ahead a couple years. I have my daughter, Nicki (Nicole) on March 2, 1972. The next day Dad goes to work and says to Nicki, "something nice happened to you yesterday" thinking how surprised she will be to know that I had named my daughter Nicki after her. Before he got to tell her, Nicki replied, "yes, I know, it was my birthday". Imagine our surprise to think that my daughter Nicki was born on Nicki's birthday!
So when I try to tell Donna this story at the polling place, she had already heard it the night before from Nicki! Just another small world story I guess.
While standing there talking to Donna, another lady walked in that I hadn't seen in a couple years. We quickly caught up on each other's lives.
Now it was time to get into the voting booth. When I walked up to district four's table, everyone seemed to know me, especially after Sally W, (a neighbor) mentioned how they had seen my mother earlier in the day and that she had made them all laugh. Then I was told my number was #200 and next thing I hear is that Mom was #100. Geez, what are the chances. So after we all have a bit of a chuckle, I went into the booth to vote.
I looked at all the names, remembered the ads I had heard and seen in recent weeks and started pushing the levers after making the best possible decisions I could on the information I had. I'm registered as an independent and when I was done, I noticed that I didn't follow any party lines which pleased me to know that I don't just pick a person by what party endorses them.
Out of the voting booth with another stop to talk to a gentleman I have known much of my life. We exchanged pleasantries and then it was out the door and to my car to finally head to the grocery store.
I couldn't stop smiling. I had voted in another election, hopefully picking the best people for the jobs and had seen some people that I hadn't seen in a while to catch up on the latest news. Wow, voting can be fun! Now I just have to wait until the morning to see who won their elections. I already feel like I won! I voted and visited.

Sunday, November 05, 2006

A Woman Should Have......

Written by Pamela Redmond Satren and published in Glamour in May of 1997

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
one old love she can imagine going back to...
and one who reminds her how far she has come...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own
even if she never wants to or needs to…
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour…
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
a youth she's content to leave behind.…
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age....
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ......
a set of screwdrivers,
A cordless drill, and
A black lace bra…
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
one friend who always makes her laugh...
and one who lets her cry…
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family…
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
eight matching plates,
wine glasses with stems,
and a recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel honored..
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
a feeling of control over her destiny…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
how to fall in love without losing herself...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
How to quit a job,
Break up with a lover,

And confront a friend without ruining the friendship…..
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
when to try harder… and when to walk away…..
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
that she can't change the length of her calves,
The width of her hips,
or the nature of her parents…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
that her childhood may not have been perfect...but its over…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
what she would and wouldn't do for love or more…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
how to live alone...
Even if she doesn't like it…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
whom she can trust,
whom she can't,
and why she shouldn't take it personally…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
where to go...
be it to her best friend's kitchen table...
or a charming inn in the woods...
when her soul needs soothing…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
what she can and can't accomplish in a day… a month...and a year...

Saturday, November 04, 2006

Veggie Tales


Have you ever heard of Veggie Tales? It's a wonderful series of movies and programming for children with a religious/spiritual angle. Stars of the show are Bob the Tomato and Larry the Cucumber (I am not a pickle) along with others, such as Pa Grape, Jr Asparagus, Madame Blueberry, the French Peas and Mr Lund, just to name a few. Each show has a theme which is told through a funny story with a silly song performed as an intermission. I have gotten a number of these videos, dvd and cd's for my grandsons, Sean and Mason. I find it funny that they both seem to like the same silly songs with "Where's my Hairbrush" and "I Love My Lips" being amoung their very favorites.
Here is one of my favorite songs from one of the CDs. It's makes me a little teary whenever I hear it, because it touches my heart so much.
Think of me Everyday
Hold tight to what I say
And I'll be close to you
Even From far away
Know that where ever you are
It is never to far
If you think of me, i'll be with you